"This course teaches parenting couples and couples the one thing we think every couple needs to know."

-Erin and Stephen Mitchell, Co-Founders 

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Do you really know what your couple conflict is all about? 

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Your conflict is not about your partner's poor communication skills.

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Nervous Systems dictate communication patterns

 

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Nervous systems are shaped by attachment experiences.

 

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What is Your Attachment?

Take our Attachment Pattern Assessment to understand how your own attachment and how this influences your communication patterns.

The Nervous Systems Response to Stress

How do relationships activate your stress response and what do you do to try and regulate your stress?

What About Your Partner?

It takes two to communicate. What attachment pattern and nervous system responses do you see in your partner? 

Getting on The Same Page

Get the tools you need to communicate clearly and learn how to keep your nervous systems in sync. 

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Attachment Theory: Why It Matters To Your Relationship

  1. The Beginning of Real Connection: Attachment Theory

    1 lesson
    1. What is Attachment Theory?

  2. When Stress Turns You Into Strangers

    1 lesson
    1. Why Attachment Theory Matters to Your Relationship?

  3. Before You Start...You Have To Know The Whole Story

    1 lesson
    1. Timeline Exercise

  4. Discover Your Attachment Pattern, Discover Each Other

    2 lessons
    1. Secure Attachment
    2. Preoccupied and Dismissive Attachment

  5. Regulation Styles and Attachment Patterns: How Do They Relate?

    1 lesson
    1. Internal and External Regulation

  6. The Regulation Style Showdown: What Kind of Couple Are You Based On Your Regulation Styles?

    4 lessons
    1. Internal and External Constellation
    2. External and Internal Constellation
    3. Internal and Internal Constellation
    4. External and External Constellation

  7. Let's Do This Together: The Principle of Opposite Action

    2 lessons
    1. Strengths to Foster In Each Attachment Pattern
    2. Co-regulation and The Principle of Opposite Action

  8. So Now What?

    3 lessons
    1. Action Steps
    2. Take the Attachment Pattern Assessment
    3. Now That You Know Your Patterns...Let's Show Some Empathy

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  • Identity your attachment patterns
  • Understand how your nervous system regulates in stress
  • Name your couple conflict pattern
  • Discover how to communicate with empathy
  • Transform disagreements into understanding-not blame
  • Turn Conflict into Connection
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The Course + Coaching

 

This course is the first thing we teach the couples we meet with! A lot of times we hear couples say they love the course but find it super helpful to also meet with us as they go through the course. If you would like to schedule some coaching sessions with us as you go through the course just click the button below. We would love to work with you. 

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Stop Fighting. Start Connecting.

Practically, Intentionally, and Playfully turn your parenting partner conflict into connection that with keep your couple relationship strong! 

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“Too Tired to Fight provides practical guidance for couples to improve their communication skills. This book is an incredible toolkit that offers tangible examples to navigate tricky conversations and build stronger relationships.”

—Eve Rodsky, author of Fair Play